Yeah, It Happens: When Guys Say No To Sex



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You read the title correctly. In this new world of “ours,”
women have catapulted many traditional male achievements and traits. If you
don’t believe me, just ask Rosemary Flores, a female wrestler at Curtis High
School in

New York who not only competes, but is also the captain of the boy’s
team. And she boasted an 11-0 record including nine pins ¾ against boys.

Things have changed and there are no signs of slowing down, nor should
there be. Since all bets are off in how we date and young women often being the
aggressors in the pursuit of a partner, what happens when guys say no to sex?
Believe it or not, it happens and it also happens with middle-age guys. So
ladies of all ages, next time you dim the lights and bust a move on your man
and he does not respond the way you want, consider the following before taking
things personally or freaking out. (That’s not good for anyone!)
Okay, it’s not all good news, but remember; guys are people, too.
Just One Night
Okay, maybe the two of you went on a bender starting with shots of
wedding cake vodka before hitting the club. It’s been a long night and you’ve
both indulged in multiple forms of stimulants. Imagine that. So it’s five a.m.
and you’re wondering why he has not jumped your bones. It might not be a
problem. He may be so wired that all he wants is to do more of whatever you two
have been ingesting, or he’s so wired that he’s trying to chill. Speedy
stimulants are not great for the male sexual apparatus. A guy might be there
mentally, but physically it’s not working. Or, one night he might be totally
stressed out from work or whatever is being thrown his way. If “no thank you”
happens once in a blue moon, don’t fret. He’ll learn to slow down and you’ll
make sure he focuses on you.
Months Pass By…
This is not a good sign. Sure, no means no whether you are a guy or a
gal, but if your guy has passed up sex for a prolonged period of time and he is
under sixty: Houston, you’ve got a problem. Every situation is different, but a
healthy, robust sex life is part of the core DNA of a healthy relationship
between partners—men and women, women and women, men and men. Sex rocks and
since it takes two to tango and you’ve been left on the dance floor, I suggest
that you sit your partner down and have a talk. Maybe it will turn out to be
the talk, but you need some kind of talk for context.
The Causes
A noted professor of gender studies at Pasadena City College claims that
it’s not you; it’s him. He states, “Men are turned on by success. Get a job or
promotion and bam, you’re ready to go. Move back with your parents? Lose your job?
You don’t feel sexy.” I think he’s right. The mind plays a major factor in sex.
That said, guys should not define their value by their job status, and when
duty calls, they need to focus on the job at hand. Faster than you can say,
Boing, a wonderful, willing partner can cure most psychological doubts in the
mind. And if it’s still not working, maybe you two are destined for the friend
zone.
What Can Be Done
Some women report that once they had the talk or even made overtures
about breaking it off, the guy’s sexual desire made a miraculous comeback.
Again, the mind can play tricks on the male psyche. Although guys need an
occasional trip to the woodshed, it’s also important that women help their man
feel virile by boosting up his morale instead of putting him down.
What do you do when your guy says no?

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